what to say

The weekend was spent

1. shopping
2.shopping
3. (yes you guessed it right) even more shopping!

From Parade to Klang to KL. Yes endless of walking into random boutiques, going through racks and racks of clothes, and trying on endless of dress I thought I like. Hey it's the only time I can shop with the mum and ignore the price tag. Gotta take advantage of the season.

And then when the weekend was over with, I realize, almost everything I bought is black in colour...Right, which means I should go out and buy some cool sexy red heels =)

On the other hand, because I was in KL doing some last minute shopping I missed Darren and Kay's surprise birthday celebration dinner. I'm sorry =(

Ok I'm not that sorry, I'm still feeling excited about all that stuff I bought over the weekend to feel sad for anyone else.

I realize, I have yet to blog about some stuff like
1. Kevin's 19th birthday and how we decorated his car (which would only be interesting with the pictures)
2. My Astro job thingy (which come to think of it, I got nothing much to say about it.)
3. Lunch with Kay at Pizza Uno to celebrate her 19th.

But this all could wait. Chinese New Year oh Chinese New Year. I have a feeling it's gonna be a quiet one this year.

Kay Kay are you OK

There's a reason why Kay's picture is the first thing you see on this post.

Cause it's her 19th birthday!

And yes, I'm just gonna talk about Kay and how I met her and all that funny stuff in between back then during our Ausmat days and now call this an update instead of a proper one.

Kay Kay Choong. The first friend in Ausmat not counting Ken la.

During the first couple of weeks I honestly didn't notice how short Kay is.
Darren and Kay. See how short she is?! Ok then again you can't compare Kay with Darren seeing that Darren is kinda superbly tall.
Kay and Shiatteen. Notice the difference?

Kay the funny ridiculous loudest scream ever girl. She was known as that girl who scream in Orange once because there was a baby cockroach on the table. Alright fair enough I hate cockroaches as well so I might just scream with her if I was there...

Kay my ponteng class partner,
Kay my lunch break partner,
Kay my Bio partner,
Kay my partner when teasing J-Anne,
Kay my gossip partner (not that we gossip a lot *ahem shy*),
Kay my prevent-er as well as the cause to some accident while walking around college,
Kay my people watching partner in college, and finally
Kay my shopping partner when we skip class to go shopping.

Notice how Kay isn't listed as my study partner? Because we usually end up talking more than doing our work (hahaha)

It's funny that we stay just 2 rows away from each other for years and only got to know each other last year through Ken. Yea well, after a while Kay, J-Anne, and I seem to be going to and back from college together almost daily because of that tiny 2 row difference.

And it's even more interesting now that she's JoeYee's Uni partner. I'm waiting to see who would make a bigger influence on each other.
Compare Ken and Kay's height...

Kay likes yellow by the way.
And I hate yellow colour. But funny that my chinese surname is Yellow.

Kay who tries to look cute. Alright I lied, she don't bother trying she just seem to be able and to pose and get a nice photo of her.
Happy 19th Birthday Kay. Or rather belated by now.

Made famous by Leon - "Kay Kay are you ok"

Yes, Kay do have a blog as well. Which you can go and drop by and check out her shameless list of pressie request. (Eh Kay! where got people so shameless like you wan?! hahaha)

ps I'm not being biased just because this post is about her, its because I don't really got anything else to update about. I'm still waiting for those pictures!

Theres only 3 type of guy in this world

To a girl, guys/boys/men can be categorize into 3 category.

1.The type girls just wanna flirt around with but not go into a serious relationship.
These are the typical bad boys type of guys. A sure sign that he is one is that he most probably specialize in looking good all the time and sweet talking girls. Yes that flirty, player moves we all know so well. Guys you know who won't be able to give you any sense of security at all. Guys you know you cannot count on at all. Guys who are only there to await that moment and take advantage of you. But hey, don't forget it's a mutual win-win situation thing.

Smart girls won't take these boys seriously, because they are just there for the fun times because they can get the party going and you'll look cool in you friends eye to be hanging off a guy like that's arm.

2. The type a girl just wanna date but is not ready to commit and marry that guy for the rest of her life.
These are the guys a girl would use to compare and contrast what they want and don't want in the personality of their future spouse. Hey, we all do that along the way of meeting our ideal future spouse. We can't just simply settle for second best can we, or settle for someone that doesn't feel right. And most of the time, the relationship don't work out for us because the guy is just not mature enough.

Love is some complicated shit, you can't just use your logic and IQ all the time, some times it's base on your guts, the feeling someone makes you feel. If it doesn't feel right, then it's better to not continue that relationship. Of course, you better take a long and hard think to make sure what your feeling is not just a moment thing.

3. The type a girl would say "I do" to.
These are the guys that fit into that picture of a girl's perfect wedding imagination which she most probably have since she's 5. These are the guys a girl would call for help, or just to talk any time of the day. The guy she know would not let her down, someone she can relies on and feel secure with. The guy she can picture with herself after 10 years down the road together with maybe some addition of little kids to that picture.

Most of the times, these guys just look some what ordinary or dorky, yes at the end of the day, a girl would still choose to marry a dorky guy who she know she can trust and count on and gives her the security she needs in the future instead of some good looking airhead player.

Why do you think there's so little good looking gene in this world.

it's really....

Having a headache and I'm hungry and I suddenly feel like crying. All at 2.30 in the morning.

I seldom get hungry. I don't even eat a lot to start with. It's not a diet thing, tho I know I look like I could use a diet. But no, my eating habits is not a diet to get slimmer thing. I eat because it's meal time and the only thing you should be doing during your meal time is to eat, or because I'm bored and I want something to chew on.

The head and the stomach is distracting me. But no, I'm determine to update this blog so I'm gonna brace myself a couple of minutes more to tell you I have nothing much to update about.

So that's it =)

No wait I just remember I do have some stuff so interesting that I gotta tell the whole wide world, but that need some pictures, which is not up yet so I guess that's all for now.

Which reminds me, I actually had an interesting weekend. Which just didnt really feel like it was one. But it telling you people might make me look cool enough in your eyes. wtf.

Till then. I know your tearing your hair out right now after reading this bunch of nonsense with no update at all.

I'm sorry but no

I was half way through a blog post about how to categorize guys, then I just lost it.

The mind is some what in a mess.

Not ready to admit defeat, because that's not who I am.

That kinda sums up what I wanna say at the moment.

obsess with the stars

1. I really have a thing for sitting in that small whatever it's call thing for kids.
2. I realize I can fit into all that small thing mainly because I have short legs....

I'm back from the weekend at Grandpa Wong's.

I'm currently in the mood for some Harry Potter and Lord of the Rings movie marathon. Yes, that's what I've been doing that's why you don't see me online that much.


Ain't the movies just awesome...It's way better than Avatar, or the Twillight sequence, or any other movie. Its the awesome-mess movie ever made.

Alright, I'm totally biased about that. I just like watching Daniel Radcliffe and the blond Orlando Bloom in the movie. *drools...*

Ok seriously I'm not like that. I don't drool over movie stars or any hot guys, not that I find many worthy of drooling over. I just don't get into that worship your favourite movie stars/singer/band/what ever popular person you like, mood.

No I don't get people who drool over or just worship or fall madly in love turn into obsession of someone they don't know. Someone they only know about through the news, someone they only know skin deep.

Let's just face it, you'll probably never get to meet them, even if you do get to meet them, what are the chances that they'll remember you? What makes you stand out of the crowd of millions of screaming crazy fans they meet daily?

I only can understand people who put posters of movie stars/singer/band/whatever you like, on the wall of their room. I only understand to that extend, the rest is just, weird.

I know I sound like I got some old lady soul in me. But really, obsession with someone you don't know? Get a life.

My point is

People don't fall out of love.

I don't think we can stop loving someone. Even after a relationship ends.
Nope. We don't stop loving them.
We just love them differently than the way we did before.
Like how we love our friends.

But people do get afraid of falling in love again.

People tell me over and over again that the financial issues arise when deciding which uni to attend to shouldn't bother me when making my decision. But I just can't help worrying.

Study loan is too much of a burden when you don't even know whether you'll be able to get a job in the future after your done with your studies.

If your smart enough that you got some kind of scholarship, then good for you.

If your studies were to be fully finance by your parents, you worry about life back at home when you leave to further your studies. Whether your parents and your sibling at home would feel financially burden because of you.

Yes as spoil as I look, I worry about spending too much money too. People might not know this but every year end, I would look back and count approximately how much money of my parents I've spend. Let's just say as the amount increase year by year, the more I feel like I shouldn't be doing what I'm about to do.

I know you'll say I should stop worrying about the money. Even my mum told me to ignore that whole financial thing. But bloody hell I bet most of you've thought about this as well.

Don't go thinking "woah she's really some filial and nice kid" or what not. Because I'm not.

Or at least I don't think I'm qualify for all that. There were times when my parents wish that they didn't have me. Trust me, that's how mad they got.

I just happen to love my money, or at least some of my money to be...What? They ARE my parents, so their money = my money

On the other hand, the mum also suggest I take a part time lover for fun. o.O hahahaahahha

So, part time lover? anyone?